Skip to content

Don’t Fall Apart Now!

This-coming weeks marks the time of the year that I recall a few of my former students falling apart.  Why?  Thanksgiving, which marks the beginning of the holiday season, falls out in the last week of November.  When I was in the classroom I quickly came to learn that any child who had a home life that was in flux (e.g., money was tight, lived without one or both of their parents, had a family member who was incarcerated) would often act out during the holiday season.

So, how do you keep learning going strong throughout this holiday season so that your classroom community will continue to thrive?  Well, the first thing is BE CONSISTENT.  Keep all of the classroom structures you’ve put into place constant throughout the holiday season.  It’s hard to do with assemblies, holiday parties, and other special guests that happen during this time of year.  however, for the sake of the class, it’s crucial to keep things routines consistent.

Usually, when one domino falls so do the others.  Keep the lines of communication open with students you suspect may have a rough time.  I used to notice that students might write about home-related issues in their writer’s notebooks.  Take advantage of the opportunity to read students’ notebooks more closely in the next few weeks since they may reveal what’s going on at home, which might be playing out with the child acting out in the classroom during school hours.

Finally, point your browser to “Keep Learning Going During Holiday & Vacation Times,” which is an article written by Margaret Wilson and Mike Anderson in this month’s issue of the Responsive Classroom Newsletter.  It’s filled with tips for making the holiday season a season of continued learning and scholarship.

Stacey Shubitz View All

Literacy Consultant. Author. Former 4th and 5th Grade Classroom Teacher.

One thought on “Don’t Fall Apart Now! Leave a comment

  1. Thank you for this post. I have noticed some of my students act out during these times for the same reasons you mentioned, and I always wonder what to do to help. I am an itinerant teacher who has the benefit of working with my students one on one, where they often feel comfortable enough with me to tell me personal things about their home life. I think it helps them to be able to talk about it with someone; which is often hard to do in a busy classroom of 20 or so kids and one teacher.

    I’ll pass this information to the teachers I work with.

    Thanks and Happy Holidays,



%d bloggers like this: