Do you know the old saying, “The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree?” I’m experiencing it first hand. My oldest daughter, Hannah, was given a writer’s notebook by her third grade teacher. She is in love. Serious love.
Last Friday she asked her teacher if she could bring her notebook home over the weekend to “make it more me” (Hannah’s words, not mine), but she was told her notebook needed to stay at school. Hannah was disappointed. On Sunday she told us, “I feel lost without my notebook, may I have one for home too?” We picked one up a few hours later. She started writing in it immediately.
Today she came downstairs in her jammies and hair sticking every-which-way with her new notebook clutched to her chest. Before saying good morning, she said, “Mom, I have to write, but I don’t know what to write about.” She plopped on the couch beside me and snuggled under the blanket.
I set my laptop aside (saving the story I was working on) and asked, “What do you feel like writing?”
“A story, a real one,” she didn’t even have to think about it, “I just don’t know what story to write. It’s like I can’t even think of a story.”
I could feel the tension coming off of her. I was reminded how frustrating it is to really want to create something, but not knowing what. She tapped her pencil on the notebook. “I was thinking,” she continued, “If I made a list of story ideas then I wouldn’t be stuck like this.”
“That’s a good idea,” I said, “Where are you going to make your list?”
“On this page, but I don’t have any ideas. I’m stuck.”
“That’s tough,” I acknowledged. Then I added, “You know, Hannah, sometimes if you think about One Time Stories, ideas come to you. Do you mind if I make a list in your notebook?”
“I’ll try anything,” she said in typical drama-Hannah fashion.
I smiled. “Okay, I’ll make the list here, so if you have your notebook open, you can see this list and make your story idea list on the facing page.”
She snuggled closer. “So each of these One Times should give you a few story ideas, like one time with a friend. Do you have any one times with friends?”
She smiled, “Yeah, when I stay over at Eva’s.”
“Any other times?”
“Hun-huh, when Caroline and I played on our bikes.”
“How about a time you were hurt?”
“Yeah, I just stubbed my toe Mamaw’s deck yesterday. Or I could write about the time I got hurt on the swing set.”
We continued making the list and story ideas flooded Hannah. (Except when we came to the one time I was naughty — which she insisted she had no ideas for . . . “Well, none I want to write about,” she confided.)
This works in classrooms too. In fact, it is one of the tried-and-true notebook lessons I return to again and again. Clicky-here to find a copy of what I give to students to tape into their notebooks. Often I ask students to start with a partner and use the list to tell stories aloud to one another, then later they create a list in their notebooks. (If you use this in your classroom, please let me know in the comments of this post. Thanks, in advance, for your feedback.) And, like most of my best ideas, this isn’t one I thought of, I simply tweaked the list. It came from an All-Write Coaches’ Meeting, but I don’t know from whom. If this was your idea, please let me know so I can give you proper credit! 😉
Try it out in your own notebook — like Hannah suggested, it is good to have a list to choose from when you need to sit down and write. Tomorrow you could try your hand at a One Time Story and then join us for Slice of Life.
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